Couple: Coexistence
There are couples who fit perfectly, complement each other well and have no problems, but others have to get used to the new situation, especially if the differences between them in terms of taste and customs, are very noticeable. In these cases it is essential to establish rules of coexistence . The meal times, the division of tasks, the days of limpieza addition, in all cases have to take into account certain factors that coexistence work and pleasant.On the one hand, the order and hygiene are very important. Although oneself does not mind their own mess, may the other person will be unpleasant. So, try to keep collecting clothing and personal effects and clean up what was used: breakfast cup, basinThe chores are often a source of conflict. Often one of them knows more done than the other, but that's no excuse, since both can learn from each other what you do not know. One option is to do the household chores together. In this way the work is shared and is less tedious to do it alone. Another option is to divide the tasks, it is important to agree on how to do so to avoid problems.In living the communication it is vital. We must always try to talk about the problems that arise and explain what aspects of coexistence are annoying or what customs should be changed so that both ye agusto. If you do not like something your partner, tell smoothly and comprehensively.However, they also have to be tolerant with the couple and try to adapt as far as possible to their customs. There may be something you do not like too much, but after talking with your classmate understand that this is something reasonable, you have to compromise and respect their actions.The same applies in other areas of coexistence, like decorating the house, buying a new cabinet or the insurance. We have to discuss decisions and take them between the two always respecting the taste and the opinion of the other person.On the other hand, maybe after a while you see reduced your personal space and maybe get to you. The important thing is that in this case, I communicate to your partner and you do understand that you need your own space. In return, you also have to respect the space of your partner if he or she so requests. Living together should never mean that you stop seeing your friends / as or stop practicing your favorite hobby.Finally, when you begin to live together you must decide how you are going to manage your economy . One option is to open a joint checking account where both your deposit the money you win. Another option, perhaps less problematic, is that each log into an account a predetermined amount for household expenses and keep your personal account. So you will remain independent both economically disponéis your money for personal items and of both to the house.
There are couples who fit perfectly, complement each other well and have no problems, but others have to get used to the new situation, especially if the differences between them in terms of taste and customs, are very noticeable.
In these cases it is essential to establish rules of coexistence . The meal times, the division of tasks, the days of limpieza addition, in all cases have to take into account certain factors that coexistence work and pleasant.
On the one hand, the order and hygiene are very important. Although oneself does not mind their own mess, may the other person will be unpleasant. So, try to keep collecting clothing and personal effects and clean up what was used: breakfast cup, basin
The chores are often a source of conflict. Often one of them knows more done than the other, but that's no excuse, since both can learn from each other what you do not know. One option is to do the household chores together. In this way the work is shared and is less tedious to do it alone. Another option is to divide the tasks, it is important to agree on how to do so to avoid problems.
In living the communication it is vital. We must always try to talk about the problems that arise and explain what aspects of coexistence are annoying or what customs should be changed so that both ye agusto. If you do not like something your partner, tell smoothly and comprehensively.
However, they also have to be tolerant with the couple and try to adapt as far as possible to their customs. There may be something you do not like too much, but after talking with your classmate understand that this is something reasonable, you have to compromise and respect their actions.
The same applies in other areas of coexistence, like decorating the house, buying a new cabinet or the insurance. We have to discuss decisions and take them between the two always respecting the taste and the opinion of the other person.
On the other hand, maybe after a while you see reduced your personal space and maybe get to you. The important thing is that in this case, I communicate to your partner and you do understand that you need your own space. In return, you also have to respect the space of your partner if he or she so requests. Living together should never mean that you stop seeing your friends / as or stop practicing your favorite hobby.
Finally, when you begin to live together you must decide how you are going to manage your economy . One option is to open a joint checking account where both your deposit the money you win. Another option, perhaps less problematic, is that each log into an account a predetermined amount for household expenses and keep your personal account. So you will remain independent both economically disponéis your money for personal items and of both to the house.
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